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THE BIRTH OF JESUS CHRIST
By Gary Ray Branscome
While every student of Scripture knows that some of
the details included in our popular remembrance of Christmas are not explicitly
stated in Scripture, there is no need to constantly point them out as if they
were factual errors. That said, let me give some examples.
I heard someone very confidently say, “When Mary and
Joseph arrived in Bethlehem Mary was not riding a donkey.” Now, while it is
true that the Bible says nothing about Joseph having a donkey, there are some
good reasons for believing that he had one, and that Mary rode on it. First of
all, because Joseph was a carpenter he would have had his tools with him (that
is how he made his living). And, because those tools were heavy he would need a
donkey to carry them. Second, because Mary was “great with child,” it would
have been difficult for her to walk, so if they had a donkey it is very likely
that she would have sat upon it. So instead of picking at details, realize that
there are some good reasons to believe that they had a donkey.
I have also heard people say, “Mary and Joseph did not
go to an inn.” Now, while it is true that the word translated “inn” in Luke 2:7
(KJV) is different from the word for inn used in the parable of the good
Samaritan — and could be translated as “house” or “guest room”— we should never
read cultural definitions of an inn into the text. The oldest continually
operating inn in the state of 
The claim is also made that, Mary and Joseph were not
in a stable at all but were in a house. Now, while there is evidence that animals
were kept in the lower level of some homes from that era; the fact that a manger
was present tells us that animals were stabled there. So why call it a house? According
to tradition, the stable where Mary and Joseph stayed was in a cave, and that
cave is still shown to tourists in 
Some are also quick to point out that there may have
been several “wise men,” not just three. And, while that is possible, and every
student of Scripture knows that the number three is inferred from the fact that
there were three gifts, the Bible
nowhere says that there were more than three, so why nit-pick. 
It is also often pointed out that that the “wise men”
did not come to the stable, but came later. And, while every student of
scripture knows that fact; wise men are included in nativity scenes because
they are part of the Christmas story, and it would be impractical to have
nativity scenes divided into two different places, one for the shepherds and
one for the wise men. 
Swallowing One Huge Camel
While I have addressed some of the details included in
our popular remembrance of Christmas that are not explicitly stated in
Scripture, those who are quick to point out those details are usually totally
blind to the blatant misrepresentation of Mary and Joseph’s relationship. To
put it bluntly: Mary and Joseph were not
just engaged. They were man and wife! Mary was Joseph’s “espoused wife,” not someone who was not
yet his wife (Luke 2:5).
Even though the relationship of Mary and Joseph would
have been described by others in their community as a “betrothal,” according to
Jewish law a betrothed
couple were legally man and
wife. Or as Lenski put it, “The Jewish betrothal was the marriage itself. But the Jewish custom
placed an interval, longer or shorter, between the betrothal and the bringing
home of the bride to her husband’s house [R.C.H. Lenski’s
commentary on The Gospel of Matthew, page 40.]
Unlike the Jewish espousal, our modern engagement is
an agreement to enter marriage at a future date, not an agreement to be man and wife. And, because Mary and Joseph
were legally man and wife, those who describe their relationship as a betrothal
or engagement mislead others by leading them to believe that Mary and Joseph
were living together out of wedlock. And, those who tell engaged couples that
being engaged is the same as being married wind up encouraging immorality.
Having said this I will point out that there is no
word in the English language for the relationship that Joseph and Mary had
before Christ’s birth. I use the archaic term, “espousal,” in order to emphasize the difference between their
relationship and a modern engagement. [To espouse is to embrace or “take as a
spouse”.]
The website, “My Jewish Learning,” describes the
espousal this way, “Until late in the Middle Ages, marriage consisted of two
ceremonies that were marked by celebrations at two separate times, with an
interval between. First came the betrothal [erusin]; and later, the wedding [nissuin].
At the betrothal the woman was legally married, although she
still remained in her father’s house. She could not belong to another man
unless she was divorced from her betrothed. The wedding meant only that
the betrothed woman, accompanied by a colorful procession, was brought from her
father’s house to the house of her groom, and the legal tie with him was
consummated.” www.myjewishlearning.com
  
Another Huge Camel
          Another totally unbiblical claim is
that that Mary had to endure shame and ridicule because of her pregnancy. That
claim does not come from the Bible, but from the carnal imagination of those
who stress obedience by works. There was never any shame connected with
Christ’s birth. 
While Mary was legally Joseph’s wife, those who stress
works obedience love to go on and on about how “obedient” she was to endure the
“shame” of being pregnant with Christ. However,
none of it is true! It is all just something they made up! God brought the
custom of espousal into existence so there would never be any shame connected
with Christ’s birth, and there never was. Mary was legally Joseph’s wife. And,
soon after she became pregnant she went into the hill country to stay with her
cousin Elisabeth who was six months pregnant (Luke 
          We do not know how Joseph learned that
Mary was pregnant, but, after being told by the angel “Do not be afraid to take
unto you Mary your wife,” he took
her to himself (Matt. 1:20, 24). Moreover, just as some weddings today are
large and some are small, so it was then. Joseph could have taken her to his
house without a big celebration, or at three-months no one may have noticed. So
there was no shame! Nor was there any reason for shame. Zacharias,
Elisabeth and Joseph all knew that Mary was pregnant with the messiah. Joseph took
her to live with him before her pregnancy was obvious. And, they both left for 
           
Conclusion
          For serious Christians, celebrating
Christ’s entry into the world is an important part of teaching the Gospel. And,
the traditional reenactment of a manger scene by the children is a way of
helping those children understand how Christ entered the world, and why He is
both True Man and True God. Let’s keep that in mind, instead of picking at the
details. God wants Christ’s birth to be remembered! Satan does not.